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by Mary Groeninger, St. Mary’s Episcopal Church, Ely When I was a child, I don’t ever remember taking a Sunday off from church. Even on vacation, my parents asked the hotel clerk where the Catholic Church was located so that we could go. Like brushing our teeth every night and going to school every day (no mental health days in our house), it was just something we did. I remember once (and only once) asking my mother, “Why do we have to go to church EVERY Sunday?” She gave me one of those looks at which women of her generation excelled, calm and piercing, and said, “Because it’s not too much too ask that we give an hour out of every week to God.” I didn’t have a response for that one and never remembering asking the question again. Nor did I give up the habit of going to church each week. Even as a college and graduate student, on Sundays I almost always gave up that hour to God, my mother’s voice echoing somewhere in the back of my brain. It may have been guilt—not the best motivation for faithful church attendance—but it got me there. I can’t remember when my reason for going to church shifted. That voice in the back of my head never completely died out, but at some point in my 20’s I found that if I missed church for one or two weeks, I felt not guilty, but a bit empty. There was something inside of me that needed feeding and was beginning to feel starved. And again, I’m not exactly sure why, but I found that after I went back to church, no matter how mundane the sermon or the music, I’d leave feeling more at rest. This summer I was away for three weekends in a row in August and feeling increasingly out-of-sorts and grumpy. So when Sam, like his mother before him, chose that time to ask the same question I had asked my mother thirty years before, I found myself saying, “Because I miss it, and I need to go.” Different answer, but he didn’t have anything to say back either. Every year when it comes up in the lectionary at church, I puzzle over the words of the Beatitudes. Why are the poor, the sick, the lonely, the oppressed happier than the rest of us? They’re not really, are they? It’s hard to be happy, to be loving, to be giving when you’re homeless or sick or hungry or alone. But I’m beginning to think Christ’s talking about something different, as much as he pitied and reached out to people who suffered. I think he’s talking about the emptiness of a life where every material want is satisfied, about that empty place, buried deep in me and – I suspect – in most of us, that surfaces from time to time as — what? Dissatisfaction? Restlessness? Loneliness? In me, it’s all of those things, and it’s through the gathering of the Body breaking bread together that it’s filled. I hope that my kids, who go to church every Saturday (though I admit that Will and I are not as diligent as my parents at seeking out churches when we’re away from home!), will keep it up as they grow older, but not because of their mother’s guilt-inspiring voice echoing in the back of their brains (I’ll save that voice for less important stuff). I hope they’ll go because despite the gifts they’ve been given all their lives, their affluence, the love that surrounds them, they also will feel that empty place inside them that needs filling from the Life-Giver. Mary Groeninger is an active member of St. Mary’s Episcopal Church, Ely, MN. She wrote this prior to adding to her motherly guilt by giving birth to Phoebe in April. |
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The Seekers – an
Open Sunday Gathering
“The Seekers” is a new name for a regular, ongoing, year-round Sunday
gathering for interested people to inquire and reflect on almost any
topic in a Christian context. It is a “come when you like” time
when we can explore a variety of programs. It could be bible
study or book discussion, a formal program like via media, a speaker or
a video, a panel of experts, or other creative options as appropriate.
Programs approved by Pat may be facilitated during this time by a
variety of people. If you have an idea for something for The
Seekers, please let Pat know. All are encouraged to attend and to
bring friends. Watch The Epistle and check Sunday announcements
for upcoming topics.
Your program suggestions are invited.
The schedule for June and July is:
June 5: Living the Resurrection: Session 2: Common
Worship
June 12: Serving at Worship (Worship Ministers’ Training)
June 19: Bible Study: Instructions for the Faithful -
Jeremiah 20:7-13 and Matthew 10:16-33
June 26: Open
July Sundays: Renovare: Traditions of Spiritual Renewal
To help our churches be welcoming and safe places
for our children, the Diocese has made a video and training available
for those of us who care about our children. For the sake of our
children, Pat would like all of us to see and discuss the video, which
will be shown after worship some time this summer. Our church
leaders and those who work with our children and youth are also
expected to attend a “safe church” training session, which will be
scheduled later, perhaps in the fall.
We do have a youth group meeting regularly and are
planning for Christian Education for our youngest members for the
fall. Over the summer Andrew Hill along with Taylor Twite will be
sharing bible stories and program with children at St. Paul’s during
the first part of our worship time. If you would like to help,
regularly or occasionally, please let Pat know.
EFM is an opportunity
to share your faith journey with a small group, to reflect on how God
is active in our lives, and study scripture and theology.
Consider joining our EFM group. Beginning in September, we will
be meeting two Wednesday evenings each month for reflection, study, and
prayer. A commitment to regular attendance is expected and there
is tuition to cover the materials (and scholarship help if
needed). Let Pat know if you are interested.
Our preachers group
needs people to help us grow in our preaching abilities. “Sermon
Helpers” of all ages and perspectives are needed to comment on
occasional Sunday sermons. Helpers will be given a written form
indicating some specific feedback needs. Of course, informal
feedback and reflections about sermons are always welcome. If you
are interested in helping, let Pat know.
The Preachers’ Group is
looking for a video camera to use to help our
Preachers-in-Training. If you have one we can borrow, please let
Pat know.
Notes from the Joint Vestry Meeting East Range
Episcopal Churches Joint Vestry Meeting in Tower at Benchwarmers, March
15, 2005:
Deadline for input to the July 2005 issue of The East Range Epistle is Wednesday, June 15, 2005 to your congregational contact. Processing is tentatively scheduled for Wednesday, June 22.
Epistle Contribution Schedule
The schedule for the lead article
for the next three issues of The
East Range Epistle is:
Getting Input to the Epistle
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Preparation of the Epistle
is time-consuming.
The following guidelines will ease the work burden on those involved:
1. All
submissions must be in electronic
format
(RTF, MS-Word, WordPerfect, Wordpad, Notepad, or as text inside an
e-mail).
Non electronic format materials must go through your congregation’s
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2.
Deadlines have been established to
make it possible
for you to receive the Epistle
before the new month
starts. The
Epistle goes to the
printer on the
Monday before the “folders, spindlers, and
mutilators”
process it. Input received late may not be printed. 3. If you wish to help with the production of the Epistle, please contact Pat (218-638-1206). 4. If you wish to help with the editing of the Epistle, please contact Carol or Chuck Morello (218-744-1615) |
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St. John's
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Vestry Notes
Meeting
of April 19, 2005:
Rector’s
Report
Meeting of May 17, 2005
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